Yes… “Ladkiyan bewakuuf nhi hoti…” unhe sab pata hota hai… aur hum ladke
bewakuuf hotey hai jo apne dosto se ye boltey hai yr ussey toh kuch pata hi nhi
hai… mai faltu mai time waste karra hu itna effort laga raha hu. Ladkion ko pata
hai ki koun unhe ghuur raha hai, koun unka piccha kar raha hai, koun unhe
“line” maar raha hai, koun unhe triangle maar raha hai etc etc.. hehehe… okey
jokes apart. Actually 10 main se 8 ladke aise hi hotey hai jo “one sided love”
mai padey hotey hai. Aur wo try kar kar ke- kar kar ke pareshan ho gye hotey
hai… aur last mai boltey hai… “yr wo meri kismat mai nhi”.
Okey, now back to topic, Women can smell anything, wo kisi ke
bhi iraado ko “smell” kar sakti hai. Har ladki ke dimag mai ek anteena hota
hai… she can catch all the emotions and feelings around her. Aksar humane school/colleges
mai dekha hai ladka apni pasand ki ladki ka wait karta hai.. ki wo kab ghar
jaye toh mai bhi ghar jaau… ladki usme jyada dhyaan nhi deti par ussey pata hai
ki… wo ullu ka pattha ussi ka wait karra hai. A girl is perfect in face and
thought predictions.
So at last.. it’s my conclusion that
leave her.. Leave her alone….
Respect her feeling.., respect her thoughts. Tumne toh try kar liya na… bas ek
try hi kafi hai… arey ussey relationship mai hi aana hota toh tumhare pehle
issarey mai hi wo tumharey pass aa jati. Waise bhi ladkiyon ko Joor-jabardasti
pasand nhi, ye toh maine unhi se pucha hai…. haha.
Acha, kisi ladki ko propose karna
hi hai toh 3-4 meeting mai kardo… iske bahut faidey hai… kam se kam guilty feel
toh nhi hota. Par agar achi dost pe dil aa gaya toh beta phass gaye tum… usko
propose karne se pehle 1000 toh kya 1,00,000 baar jarur soch lena…. Kyuki Han kar
diya toh “life is beautiful” par
agar na kar diya toh devdas toh ban hi jaogey upar se ek acha friend bhi gaya
aur ussey jindagi bhar apni shakal bhi ni dikha paoge. Acha ladkiyon ke pet
dialouge hotey hai indirect mana karney ke i.e. “mujhe ye sab pasand nhi”, “I
am already in a relationship” yunhi jabki wo ho bhi na, “I hate love stories”, “inn sab chhakaro mai ni padhna chahiye…
galat hai ye sab”… blah blah…!! Bas itna suntey hi…. Step back your feet from
her… leave her… ya toh “yaadon ki baraat”
ke sahare jilo… hehehe… ya phir itna hi hai toh kahi aur try karlo.. hahaha!!!