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चार लाइन दोस्तों के नाम-

काश फिर मिलने की वजह मिल जाए
साथ जितना भी बिताया वो पल मिल जाए,
चलो अपनी अपनी आँखें बंद कर लें,
क्या पता गुज़रा हुआ कल मिल जाए…

मौसम को जो महका दे उसे
‘इत्र’ कहते हैं
जीवन को जो महका दे उसे ही ‘मित्र’ कहते है l

क्यूँ  मुश्किलों  में  साथ  देते  हैं  दोस्त,
क्यूँ  गम  को  बाँट  लेते  हैं  दोस्त,
न  रिश्ता  खून  का  न  रिवाज  से  बंधा  है
फिर  भी  ज़िन्दगी  भर  साथ  देते  हैं  दोस्त…

IS A GIRL REALLY WANT ONLY MONEY..?

A girl wants a perfect, ideal man. Yes girls that man is exist around you and waiting patiently. Girls have their own list of qualities they want and sometimes the list is bizarre. But believe me if you want to find the perfect man… please ma’am you will have to stay single forever.
Look I have some common list given below:

1. He should earn like a billionaire.
Her Dialogue: “bhagwaan.. mujhe ek ameer ghar ki bahu banana”. Bullshit.. toh hum jaise ladko ki umeed khatam..??
 Yes, of course money is everything in this world. And for a girl, money is everything; she
wants their ideal partner to mint money very second. Why..? Of course shopping…. Haha.!!

2. Tall as a giraffe.
Her dialogue: “bhagwaanji, ladka 6’11” hona chahiye, okey?”
Aur bhagwaan bhi: “lo beti.. tathastu! And suddenly.. “Giraffe appears”. Again Bullshit… mujh
jaise ka phir koi scope nhi.
 No... I really don’t know.. Why a girl want a tall man.. It’s not about a single girl… I asked
from lot of girls and every girl want a tall man..! Actually…. I know the reason behind it…. This
matter is connects with the physical relationship…. I can’t discuss it here… it’s quite awkward.

3. Romance like shahrukh khan.
Her dialogue: After watching DDLJ… or the song “saans” with Katrina kaif… “kash mera pati bhi mujhe aisa hi pyaar karey..!!
 Oh yes! Every girl loves SRK and dreams of finding such a life partner. Well girls “this type of
dreams don’t comes true.” Haha..!

4. An emraan hasmi fan.
Her dialogue: “he is hot”. And every boy says..”WTF… we all are professional in this..” haha..!
Oh come on…. I am not gonna talk about KISS…!! And Emraan hasmi too…!
Well I don’t know about this thing much…. But I really heard about Emraan hasmi that he is
famous among girls… aur aap andaaza laga lo… ki kyun?

5. Body like Salmaan and Cute like Shahid.
Actually.. now salmaan body is not so famous as compared to other actors because in film
industry every one have six abs…! so now “salmaan body” is only remain a word for Bollywood.
 But every girl want a boy.. who have nice body structure… who looks cool when shirt less,….
Kyuki wo gool pait aajkal kisi ko bhi pasand nhi… because this may be defines a lazy guy. And you know what.. that’s why I work hard in gym these days…. Six abs coming soon ladies... Haha..!!
 Oh how I forget… the word “CUTE”. Actually, I am scared of this word… when ever a girl call
you cute…. Don’t get over excited…. Beware my friend…. Because “wo tumhe ek good guy kitarah dekhti hai… a good ... Cute… sensible… ufff..”. Ab tumhe bhai banna hai ya BF.. tumhari
marzi..!

6. Caring like a nurse.
Her dialogue: “shaadi ke baad bacche ka khyaal karne waala bhi hona chahiye”.
Come on girls… “Caring girl” hears good rather than a “caring boy”

7. Hot as a sun.
Her dialogue: “ladka hot hona chahiye… john ya ranbir ki tarah”
Bhagwaan: tathaastu beti. Lo “suraj” thik hai tere liye. Haha..!

8. As loyal as DOG.
Her dialogue: “jo mai kahu.. wo bas wahi kare..”
Acha ye sunke gaana yaad aaya ek…. “ban gaya kutta dekho.. ban gaya kutta..”. Iss movie ka 2nd part bhi aana wala hai… check the trailer.
If not before marriage, every guy becomes dog eventually. “aur iss kuttey ka din kabhi nhi aata”.

Okay… I think that’s it for today. And my next article is based on the 1st point of this list… I
hope will enjoy that too.

FRIENDSHIP: A beautiful relation

“Don’t wait for people to be friendly. Show them how.”

           We don’t live close to each other, so grabbing a coffee or just walk in the street isn’t an option. But really connecting with her/him, sharing pieces of my life and receiving the pieces she/he wants to give, doesn’t require specific geography. As we, shared stories, and laughed over private jokes that would sound funny had the phone been tapped, I wondered why I let so much time go by since I’d last given her a call.

                       

         We can be great friends to each other, despite the distance, if we choose to make the effort. If we remember to make the time, we can have those types of meaningful, fulfilling conversations that make us feel seen, understood, appreciated, and supported. Not everyone has to be a close friend, but it’s integral to our happiness that we show people who we truly are, allow ourselves to know them in return, and then remind each other through actions small or large…that we care.

       We never need to be or feel alone in this world, but it’s up to us to create and allow opportunities to be together, enjoy each other, and be there for each other. It’s up to us to make our relationships priorities. Then I started to think about all the times when I’ve gotten busy and lost touch with friends who live right down the street—times when I got caught up in everything going on in my life and forgot to nurture my relationships.

                           

But can a relationship like this ever be forced???? 

        Someone wants to be your friend. You accept it. You both shares a lot of stuff, in fact, the person takes a lot of help from you. You spend your time, to help him out, guide him where he's weak. He learns a lot. Time passes, and supposedly, the bond gets stronger. Soon, your paths separate. You go somewhere else, while the person goes to some other place. After some early talks, and stuff, he finally stops contacting you. In fact, that person starts ignoring you. You wonder and wonder, and finally realize the bitter truth. It was never a friendship. It was simply a one sided relationship. The person, who befriended you, was simply there, to gain benefits. He learned a lot from you, but the friendship is never about being an opportunist. It is about mutual understanding, it's about friendship itself. 

      Such fake friends are like parasites. They take benefits from you, and in the end damage you. Such relationships are hollow. They might look 'solid' but that's just an illusion. To make a bond, mutual understanding is required. There's something called 'connection' that develops between friends as the time passes. You start feeling what the other one is feeling. It might sound foolish and quite baseless, but believe me, you can only feel it. You start knowing what the other person is thinking. Sometimes you find a great friend, simply by luck. Fate interfare, and you end up getting a wonderful friend.

 

       But what about testing a friend? Is it required? Well, a real friend will always be with you. Let it be a thunderstorm, or a calm blue sky, that friend will always be there. A real friend stays while the 'fake' friends leave when you are in trouble. They never cared about you, all they ever cared about were their own 'benefits' and how to get them from you. 

 But beware, as we seen in chemistry that too much acid tests anywhere would damage the subject. Same happens in a relationship. If you test it again and again, it would start getting weaker, and there would come a time when it would become hollow, and break, just like a dry twig.

     Remember, true friends are harder to find. If you do find them, take care of them. Because, when millions are against you, your true friend will be with you, side by side, ready to protect you.